My development as a social and personal person
The objective of this reflexive work is to relate the first topics worked in the classroom with my personal life, highlighting the importance and utility they will have in the development of this. Human development is the main engine of all activities carried out by a society. That is why, the relevance of having studied the application of theoretical concepts will be fundamental in the personal and professional development of my person, due to the impact it generates at different levels.
My development has been influenced by two components: inheritance and environment. The first is the process, by which, the physiological and nutriological characteristics of our pass are transmitted. A factor that I consider that it has influenced my development, is my thin context, since I have suffered comments offensively towards me and when I was a child it made me become sad. Another inheritance factor has been the little hair that I have and today, it is still annoying for me and I feel that it has influenced my development, since some friends at the time of naming me in different situations no longer call me by my name, butthat tell me nicknames. The second component, the environment is the set of circumstances or physical factors that surround living beings and influence their development and behavior. A factor of this component that has influenced my development would be my treatment towards people, since, in my house, my parents are very discussed and speak inappropriately, which generates that I live in an environment of discussions andfights;And this makes the same deal to my colleagues with whom I frequent. The second factor of the environment that has influenced notoriously in my development has been the motivation my parents have had to get ahead, since they did not come from a wealthy family and the ways they have had to get ahead are the ones thatThey make me grow with a thought equal to them;That is, knowing that nothing is impossible in the world that I live.
The autoesquems are the beliefs and ideas that people have about themselves. My behavior has been affected in two areas of my life, social and physicist. The first, since I have an idea of how I am (interesting, conversationalist), which generates that he is always debating on topics in which they cause me interest and I will have long talks with my colleagues. In the second area, my autoesquema would be that I am an athlete;That is why, I always seek to do physical exercises, because I know it will be a great help to have the body that I need to develop the sports that generates interest to me.
self-efficacy is the ability to use personal resources themselves within complicated circumstances. A specific task that I have considered is to become a fifth superior in the university and for this I have based on two sources that develop the belief of my goal. One of these is behavioral history, since I have already had past attempts at school to get the position;and verbal persuasion, since I have had the positive opinion by my parents who know that I am able to achieve this.
Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and conduct our emotions, so that we can use them to guide our behavior to produce better results. My strength, among the components of emotional intelligence is empathy, since I always seek to put myself in the place of people and understand the situation in which they find. As weakness or limitation, the component would be self-regulation, since I am a person who does not control and do things without thinking or have control over my person. An experience that happened to me was at the time I fought with my parents and made them feel bad with offensive comments and I failed to have control over me and I did not think about the things I said. Finally, after a few hours I put myself in the place of my parents and asked for the respective apologies.
A stressful that has been giving in my development has been the burden of jobs that I have been doing at school and, today, at the university. The source that my stress was trying to meet the expectations of others, since I always decided. In my case, the coping style I performed was to consider different solutions, where I can do the job without the need to feel so stressed and relax.
In conclusion, I feel that my development as a person has gone in a correct way, but with some things to improve. As strengths, I feel that I am a person who has courage, who always persists and never seeks to surrender. In addition, I have wisdom and knowledge I always seek to learn more and learn more, since I feel that a person never stops learning new things. However, as well as strengths, there are also aspects of improvement. One of them is teamwork, I feel that I am a person who always tries to do everything alone, because I seek to do my best to achieve my best notes. Another aspect would be punctuality, lately, I arrive late to group works, appointments, etc.;which is important, because it says a lot about a person.
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