Make bonds of good friendship: family values
Introduction.
Friendship is important at all stages of life. However, enjoying a healthy and active social life from childhood will improve security and self – esteem. Most children have no difficulty establishing relationships with their peers. However, your child may have problems making friends. If so, this article may interest you. It is essential that our child is clear about the concept of friendship, and what it means. The basic components of this are: love towards the other, reciprocity and mutual support.
Developing.
Know that the other feels the same union with us, and that it is unconditional. Trust and sincerity. We can tell everything that worries us, without judging us or making valuations. But you will be confident to give us your sincere opinion. There is mutual interest and concern. This leads them to communicate, spend time together or know about the other.
Next, we list some of the possible situations that can realize. This is reached around 4-5 years, although each child carries their rhythm, which can depend on other factors.
- Personality factors: an introverted child tends to look for moments of loneliness, even to flee from the company of others;He overwhelms the bustle and crowd. On the other hand, the shy child – or with low self – esteem – will be insecure, waiting for others to take the first step;He will cost him to express his preferences, and let himself be carried away.
- Behavior problems: a child with limits, capricious or aggressive, will have many difficulties when making friends. The others will not feel comfortable in their company, avoiding sharing their games with him.
- Physical difficulties -Language, hearing, mobility, etc.-These difficulties can generate problems in the communication of our children with others. Which will produce that the rest of the children – not sensitized – see it different, and do not want – or do not know – interact with him. In the same way, our child may not feel understood. Thus, complicated resulting to establish a good relationship. They can produce rejection among equals, even in the other parents.
- Children with high capacities: some children with a cognitive capacity superior to average may feel that they do not fit their peers. It is difficult for them to find the same to share their interests and way of understanding life. This will make them feel out of place, misunderstood and even rejected. It will cost them to trust others, and avoid the approach to new children, for fear of mockery and abuse. How to prevent our child from having friends we are the best example they can have. We must listen to them, know what they need, how they feel and how they act with the rest of the children.
Some tips to help our child overcome the problems they may have when making friends are: Share social situations with friends, that your child learns social skills through your experience. Try that in these meetings there are children of their age, with whom he can share experiences and games. Make him understand that not everyone is a friend, and that he can take any disappointment. Explain that not all friends last forever, but there are others that yes;that everything depends on the personal circumstances and the type of relationship that is established.
It shows interest in what you think of others and how you feel with your peers. Facilitates communication with him, promoting his safety and empathy. Look for extracurricular interest, or take meetings where there are children with their own tastes and interests. In this way, it will be easier for you to feel integrated and encourage to go to more social events with equals. Teach to tools to solve your problems by yourself. In this way, your self – esteem will increase and gain independence. In the event that your child is suffering bullying, informs the school and takes the appropriate measures. Help him to resolve conflicts that may arise in their relationships, but do not actively intervene -less than necessary-.
Conclusions.
Teach to tools to solve your problems by yourself. In this way, your self – esteem will increase and gain independence. In the event that your child is suffering bullying, informs the school and takes the appropriate measures. Help him to resolve conflicts that may arise in their relationships, but do not actively intervene -less than necessary-. Teach to tools to solve your problems by yourself. In this way, your self – esteem will increase and gain independence. In the event that your child is suffering bullying, informs the school and takes the appropriate measures.
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