Infidelity is unequal
Introduction
I looked with stupor: that body seemed pleasant, no doubt. It was the same as for years he had crazy about desire and yetHe no longer feels to see her nake.
Some individuals choose couple for reasons such as reproduction, conviction, loneliness or the need to complement. Relationships are inherent to the life of the human being for their individual and social development. Authors such as Bauman refer to the so -called liquid love, a name that emerges from the liquid analogy as an element that changes constantly and that hardly maintains its form.
Developing
Today, it is increasingly common for relationships to dissolve in a considerable number of cases for reasons regarding the breakdown of implicit and explicit rules of exclusivity that culture and society impose on couples. Mostly, such brokenness is known as infidelity.
Likewise, the value of faithfulness has been of the utmost importance for men and women: the violation of this pact of sexual and emotional exclusivity can cause different conflicts, and in some situations the solution to them can be conceived as separation. However, it is necessary to consider that the value granted to infidelity depends on the social perception of it, since an event can be interpreted as a transgression by certain people, while for others theBreak of the agreed rules.
Let’s put western societies, where it is thought that the unfaithful man is an envied, venturous, favored, lucky, graceful, exceptional and superior guy. Instead, women are martyrs, victims of criticism, contempt and unthinkable convictions. The stigma of inequality survives in the so -called feminine, remote and antagonistic infidelity to that of the male genre. The unfaithful woman is a taboo and veto in the issues of interest for today’s society. To show the punishment and humiliation of the feminine infidel, chronicle of an announced death by García Márquez is perfect. Ángela Vicario is humiliated because she decides to confess to her husband the wedding night that is not a virgin.
He is outraged returns her to her parents’ house. Being a woman is a biological reality on which we are imposed by a gender education that oppresses us. The man who commits infidelity is synonymous with masculinity, pride and deserves little or no social sentence, but in the case of women it happens just the opposite, so it receives a more rigorous conviction.
conclusion
Currently, both women and men have more and more interests, desire to innovate and live new experiences, so it is very possible that they seek these experiences outside of marriage or courtship. Of course, the attracted or attracted is not encouraged, to exercise infidelity as a sports discipline. In our opinion, the community is invited to be conscious and critical, since, we are all linked or tied to be unfaithful.
No matter our gender, race, religion, sexual orientation or nationality, the ways of relating physical and already, very in vogue through social networks permeate how we link to others. Being a woman is not ever, a collection of stereotypes about femininity. Respect, tolerance, understanding and flexibility is required, since without denoting a judgment on the infidelity of women, we would have to contextualize and locate ourselves in the contemporary era. Do not transgress or hurt third parties, always with an equanimous dialogue that allows the best agreement and pact in the couple.
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