Current relationships between father and son
Currently, it is difficult to maintain a full relationship between parents and children, speech is scarce and this has been reflected in academic use and discipline within institutions.
Confirmed that respect must be reciprocal (father-son and son-son), however, conserve distance more indifference sample is already disrespectful, it is not direct, but it affects.
Each home has different routines and different methods to instill values, however, not all children who come from a dysfunctional family are bad students (many of them pay with excellence and neat attitudes), but in this present work we will focus only on themain topic;The communication deficit at home and how it influences children and young people who defectly perform their studies.
Children and young people, all have their stages, and therefore, you have to let them have their process. Is this one of the factors to affirm that each person adopts non -compromising attitudes, according to their age? Perhaps, there are so many variables that predominate.
While it is true, dialogue is used to demonstrate importance, but the question is: is this mechanism correctly used?
When a family disintegrates and does not meet the emotional satisfactions of their children, they are very likely that they go to vices, bad friendships;Due to lack of attention, self – esteem is destroyed in children, making acceptance in environments not appropriate for them, aggressiveness and among them school failure.
As mentioned (Elva González, 2015). "By virtue of what is described, it is considered that: depending on the level of communication that parents have with the children, radically affects the academic performance of the students".
Now, we know that young people are capricious and are not always right due to lack of experience or knowledge. Some parents tend to make decisions that involve the separation or disintegration of the home and do not do so in order to make their children feel bad, but intervene factors that make it worthy of executing them, for example: the mother can suffer abuse by abuse byof the young man’s father, infidelities or does not contribute financially at home. If we realize these factors, they generate damage from before separation, because, their children are already visualizing the problems that exist at home, but specifying a dysfunction makes it more serious.
Generally, there are elderly people who judge the way they educate young people and this has a name "anachronism". Anecdotes on how they educated their children have been heard, but we see it from a perspective, both objective and subjective, in times the couples had children by quantity, how did this affect young people? Affected in different ways, due to the large number of children;Some of them did not have access to education, regarding the fact that parents faila taboo before society and if a young man was heard of these issues was punished.
Currently, talks are taught about sexual education to children, youth and adults something that is now indispensable and basically is the duty of every father to inject knowledge into their children.
However, the lack of communication was and remains one of the obstacles to publicize everything a young man should know.
Without getting away from the subject, educators also play an important role in the life of a young man. When a young man has problems at home, the teacher has the right to find out, why is this monitoring necessary? It is necessary, to know the cause of the low academic performance and the inappropriate behavior of its student. Being an educator does not simply try to prepare a class and go to stop and talk about a certain topic, a good educator has the power to know why the disagreement, insecurity and lack of control of his student. There is nothing better than a satisfied and aware person that he does a good job advising his children for their emotional, psychological and physical well -being.
Research is carried out because household communication has affected young people in their academic performance, is evident, because many students have attitudes outside their normal behavior;At present there are a large mass of young people with addiction problems and it is not understood why parents do not act before that.
According to (Olmedo Muriel and Mediavilla Meza, 2013). “Since the family is the basic cell of society, the challenges to keep it together and strengthened is transcendent, adolescence is a stage of rebellion, experimentation and extreme pressure from friends or schoolmates, which often directs theYoung people to take risks that momentarily help them to free their emotions and the parents will be called to guide their behaviors ”.
The study is executed in different family nuclei, that study is necessary to take variables and according to this, measures are taken in the situation.
- Discover, the type of communication between parents and children, to implement methods that improve communication.
- Investigate, the causes and consequences that prevents affective communication between parents and children.
- Propose, possible solutions to the problem according to the environment in which young people develop.
Bibliographic references
- Cristian, or. And Luis, M., (2013). Study of communication between parents and children of the “Popular Colegio España” of the city of Otavalo. Communicational Model for Family Integration. Bachelor thesis, North Technical University.
- Elva, g., (2015). Communication between parents and children and their impact on the academic training of the students of the National Institute of Basic Education of the Municipality of Casillas, Department of Santa Rosa, year 2014. Bachelor thesis, University of San Carlos de Guatemala.
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