Friendship requires caution
Introduction
You should worry about friendship. Maria was a good and affectionate girl. He worked in an organization where he met Ahmed. They both wanted and married. God blessed the beloved daughter, and thus their lives were filled with happiness. A very good friend of Maria’s childhood had some work in her company, she sent her to her husband, so her work was done quickly. Maria did not know that mobile phone numbers had been exchanged between her friends and her husband, and that the next few days were about to cause a storm in her life. Friendship requires caution
Shortly after, a fight between Maria and her husband broke out. These fights were about things that were very old. It was later discovered that these were the things he had told his friend in a friendship. Tired of the daily fights, Maria went home. The conversation continued, but there was no solution. Her husband failed to convince her that she didn’t have an adventure with her friend. Maria, instead of solving the seriousness of the matter wisely, offered anger. Maria refuses to return. Finally, her husband married Maria’s friend and brought her home, and after many conflicts, Maria’s marriage ended in divorce. Today her friend is happy to marry another with her husband, and Maria still does not believe in the infidelity of her friend and her husband.
Developing
I met Maria recently. When the word was mentioned, the humidity in his eyes went down. She said we were all good in our spouse, I don’t know who was looking, what swallowed our relationship. For his words I began to guess who was wrong with all this and who was punished. He who trusted his friend to share the spouse’s words, and then lifted her husband’s love penis. Or it was her husband’s fault that vomited when there was a difficult time in the relationship. Unfortunately, the moment when the most sensible thing should have been the husband was not. Or her friend, who had an adventure with her own friend’s husband, mistreated her telling her husband what she had told her.
You must see the characters of this story around you. This is another increasing tragedy in our society, which urgently needs to speak. This is an aspect of the image, and the other is that in many cases women did the same. She divorced her husband, married her husband’s friend, who was supposed to go home as a family. Friendship is essential, but caution is essential. Either your childhood or childhood friend. The distance is very important. Therefore, precaution with respect to Mahram and bad will in Islam is mandatory. The reason for this is that the devil can always do it for himself, no matter how happy the married couple is.
Maria’s story teaches us many lessons. Keep your first marriage life. The moments of happiness, sadness are not the same as telling everyone. There says in the Qur’an about the relationship that spouses are the clothes of the other. That means that nobody matters are the moments of anxiety, anguish and sadness, do not tell him. Keep praying to God, but keep your heart in your husband’s secret. They say that no one is bigger than Alejandro, who made the secret of keeping his secret secret. That is what happened in the case of Mary, in the friendship she shared, that, when she later learned of her husband with her friend, she ended in a relationship.
Second, do not overvalue your friendship or trust as blind. Keep your eyes open, use your intellect to decide what to say and decide for yourself, not blackmail in the form of friendship.
Last thing! After all, why do some girls go to married men? What do you get when destroying someone’s house or a house? A few days ago, an actress cited her divorce saying that there was a misunderstanding in her husband, and that through social networks, the girls made private messages of sympathy towards her husband, who did not need, which worsened our relationship. There were other reasons for his divorce, but one of the reasons was that the girls made her husband believe that you were fine, that your wife was wrong.
conclusion
Ethics requires that spouses do not come in the midst of their wives, not to create misunderstandings between them. Because there is no space for a third relationship between the two. The arrival of that worsens the relationship. Today, social networks are spreading like malaria. It is not difficult to contact anyone. But be careful, do not allow the spouse to misunderstand between you. If something like this happens, try to solve it with the dialogue.
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