The causes of infidelity
Infidelity refers popularly, to the affectionate relationships of the romantic type, in the short or long term, established with people other than the official link that is often kept as a threat to the family institution.
In addition, in accordance, with the DRAE (dictionary of the Royal Spanish Academy), the word comes from the infidelite Latin – Atis, which denotes the breach of the commitment of fidelity or lack of this.
According to DR. Juan Armando Cobrin (Bachelor of Psychology from the University of Buenos Aires, Master in Human Resources, and expert in Business Communication and Coaching, Postgraduate in Nutrition and Health and Social Food by the UOC), this is considered the greatest betrayal that can becommit against the other member of the love relationship, when we have a partner, in most cases, we unconsciously sign an implicit contract of loyalty, exclusivity and respect.
It should be added that, when talking about infidelity, the first thing that comes to mind is sex with another person who is not your partner. But according to a group of Norwegian researchers, they claim that according to studies carried out, it is found that infidelity not only occurs physical, but also with thought and it hurts the same although the sexual act has not been carried out.
We can also add that infidelity according to Walter Risos (DR. Psychologist, a specialist in cognitive therapy and magister in bioethics), is not just deceiving or breaking a moral code, is hurting, hurting and destroying the like.
Returning to the issue at hand, it is clear that there are various causes that lead a person to practice infidelity, and one of the most common causes are: lack of attention, abuse of discussions. They aim to annoy or tire said individual so that they choose to seek tranquility and rest with another person without ending their official relationship.
In addition Perel (58 -year -old Belgian psychotherapist), considers that most people who fall into infidelity, do more than everything to recapture that feeling of being alive, with another person. It also tells that there are various causes such as: curiosity, and mischief. And consider that most of the time the infidels are not looking for another person, but their other self.
On the contrary, DR. Sari Van Anders (PhD. Clinical psychologist at the University of Michigan), affirms that the only existing cause that leads to infidelity corresponds to the high testosterone index that said individual possesses, and reaches this conclusion thanks to a study conducted that demonstrates that, as higherBe the level of testosterone in a person, this will experience a greater need to look for another sexual partner.
Even so, the dr. Robert Weiss., monotony and even revenge.
Therefore, it can be said that infidelity is nothing more and nothing less than the existence of an extra relationship to the officer, and that this occurs for various causes such as: insecurity and sexual dissatisfaction, among others. And also that this results in hurting, hurting and even destroying the fellow.
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