Emotional maturity and the acceptance of the truth
Introduction
Knowing that sometimes life is not how we want it to be and on many occasions it is not fair either and, nevertheless, we do not take responsibility for those around us, because in truth the search for well -being and mental health is its own responsibilitythat we cannot place on the shoulders of third parties. So we can say that we are emotionally mature people.
Developing
It must be admitted that to achieve maturity it is necessarySome reason;Because it turns out that life is so we do not choose it, sometimes it is not fair and that is what touches, our maturity lies in knowing how to lead ‘that life’ that touched us in the lottery of destiny. Here are some truths that an emotionally mature person accepts, understands and understands to cope with life.
The world is not like it would be: there are facts that we cannot change that only happen and already. I wish we could edit certain paragraphs of life (but it turns out that it is not possible). Being emotionally mature lies in being able to develop the ability to accept the reality we have in front if falling into a despair and permanent depression;But above all asking us, what does it have to learn from this circumstance? Continue with life and try to learn from the mistakes made … maybe the key is not to return from the bad times a repetitive cycle.
Maturity
Learn to handle the emotional compass: as well as when we go on an excursion and we have a compass to know where we have the north and not get lost, in our life we also have to learn to calibrate our compass and understand what paths it is not appropriate to travel, but above all to always have our north, that path that allows us to exercise our peace and mental tranquility.
License to change: When we understand that we make mistakes that life puts proof that sometimes we do not pass, we also understand that we have allowed to change and improve our essence and personality, that seeking to be good people is a constant habit and search. To put it in some way when we go from our life, the only constant thing we have is our name.
Happiness is its own responsibility: the search for happiness seem to become ‘the lost treasure map’ unfortunately we endorse that need for great value to third parties and very rarely we realize the first of changes thatBeing happy is an extremely great responsibility that we have with ourselves, that we are the only ones responsible for looking for it and taking advantage of it. Unfortunately we sometimes do not realize that finding that treasure requires making certain quite strong and risky decisions, but life is so and that is what there is.
Being happy is not synonymous with being in love: when we reach our emotional maturity we understand that being happy is our own responsibility, but we also understand that our state of full happiness goes hand in hand with being in love, unless we begin to understand thatWe can fall in love with life, our work, a good book, a rich cup of coffee, a trip to a special place, a while of relaxation and reflection. So there we can say that I am happy because I stay in love/or.
conclusion
In conclusion, I think that among the first steps to be understood to be people with stable emotional maturity, it is that the responsibility we have for ourselves is extremely large, finding a balance between what we can handle and change with respect to thatAgainst what we cannot do anything that is not to accept and learn to manage, it is a fairly great step to not allow our environment to interfere with our emotional well -being.
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